<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: I Said Stop.</title>
	<atom:link href="http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/</link>
	<description>Life is better with the right words.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 12:07:05 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1</generator>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>By: Teena</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2035</link>
		<dc:creator>Teena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 08:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2035</guid>
		<description>I feel that you JUST MIGHT be a hero! (You just may never know it).  My experiences teaching adults in a vocational school, (where most of our student population falls in the &quot;poverty level bracket&quot;) has introduced me to many individuals that are void of any understanding of accountability.  I REFUSE to dismiss actions that are very clearly the &quot;Wrong&quot; choice.  I have embarked upon numerous encounters where I face-off with students and STRONLY urge them to be accountable for words or actions.  At the time, they would never DARE reveal that I was getting through to them, however, I have been fortunate to receive cards and letters, thanking me and telling me that teaching them the importance of accountability changed their lives.  They are truly grateful that I took the moment to teach them that simple, yet extremely valuable lesson.  Most of them have grown up making these choices,  hoping that someone would care enough to correct them.  They are once again disappointed realizing that no one believed in them enough to bat an eye.  A majority of them grow accustomed to being branded with lovely names like Loser or hearing that they will never amount to anything etc...   Although you may not always have the pleasure to see the impact it makes, (if any) I believe it is better to TRY than to just sit and expect nothing better from another fellow, Human Being (just because you THINK that they don&#039;t &quot;know any better&quot;).  Give them a LITTLE credit and you may be giving them the opportunity to make the &quot;right&quot; choice for the first time in their life.   You never know......You MAY  JUST be a hero to that ONE person!!!  I say, go for it.  Make this world a better place, one person at a time!  Namaste&#039;  (no taking off for my run on&#039;s or punctuation.) :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel that you JUST MIGHT be a hero! (You just may never know it).  My experiences teaching adults in a vocational school, (where most of our student population falls in the &#8220;poverty level bracket&#8221;) has introduced me to many individuals that are void of any understanding of accountability.  I REFUSE to dismiss actions that are very clearly the &#8220;Wrong&#8221; choice.  I have embarked upon numerous encounters where I face-off with students and STRONLY urge them to be accountable for words or actions.  At the time, they would never DARE reveal that I was getting through to them, however, I have been fortunate to receive cards and letters, thanking me and telling me that teaching them the importance of accountability changed their lives.  They are truly grateful that I took the moment to teach them that simple, yet extremely valuable lesson.  Most of them have grown up making these choices,  hoping that someone would care enough to correct them.  They are once again disappointed realizing that no one believed in them enough to bat an eye.  A majority of them grow accustomed to being branded with lovely names like Loser or hearing that they will never amount to anything etc&#8230;   Although you may not always have the pleasure to see the impact it makes, (if any) I believe it is better to TRY than to just sit and expect nothing better from another fellow, Human Being (just because you THINK that they don&#8217;t &#8220;know any better&#8221;).  Give them a LITTLE credit and you may be giving them the opportunity to make the &#8220;right&#8221; choice for the first time in their life.   You never know&#8230;&#8230;You MAY  JUST be a hero to that ONE person!!!  I say, go for it.  Make this world a better place, one person at a time!  Namaste&#8217;  (no taking off for my run on&#8217;s or punctuation.) :-)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Postcard Stories. &#171; Writing on Butterfly Wings</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2034</link>
		<dc:creator>Postcard Stories. &#171; Writing on Butterfly Wings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 15:16:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2034</guid>
		<description>[...] by the ongoing debate I&#8217;ve been involved in over at WriterDad&#8217;s blog and his post I Said Stop.  You should really go check it out.  People have been getting pretty passionate about their [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] by the ongoing debate I&#8217;ve been involved in over at WriterDad&#8217;s blog and his post I Said Stop.  You should really go check it out.  People have been getting pretty passionate about their [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2033</link>
		<dc:creator>Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 02:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2033</guid>
		<description>Bruce:  Glad you&#039;re hear Bruce.  It is a fantastic conversation happening.  Three days, still active, I like.  I agreed with everything you said, and enjoyed the voice you said it in.  I&#039;m perfectly comfortable with role model.  Thank you.  I probably should have showed more caution, but honestly I&#039;ve had several similar confrontation since moving in.  I think, for the most part, they&#039;re all cowards and aren&#039;t used to being stood up to.  Even so, I should definitely be more careful.

GreenJello:  I totally agree.  We were poor when I was little, and I don&#039;t remember it ever occurring to me that I couldn&#039;t be rich when I grew up, so long as I wanted to.  You were very lucky to grow up in the family that you did.  You&#039;ve passed that fortune forward.  Thanks for sharing your voice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bruce:  Glad you&#8217;re hear Bruce.  It is a fantastic conversation happening.  Three days, still active, I like.  I agreed with everything you said, and enjoyed the voice you said it in.  I&#8217;m perfectly comfortable with role model.  Thank you.  I probably should have showed more caution, but honestly I&#8217;ve had several similar confrontation since moving in.  I think, for the most part, they&#8217;re all cowards and aren&#8217;t used to being stood up to.  Even so, I should definitely be more careful.</p>
<p>GreenJello:  I totally agree.  We were poor when I was little, and I don&#8217;t remember it ever occurring to me that I couldn&#8217;t be rich when I grew up, so long as I wanted to.  You were very lucky to grow up in the family that you did.  You&#8217;ve passed that fortune forward.  Thanks for sharing your voice.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Simmerman</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2032</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Simmerman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:35:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2032</guid>
		<description>@ Bruce Q &quot;It&#039;s vandalism. Or, on another level, it&#039;s pissing all over everything just to scream &quot;I&#039;m here!&quot;&quot; I love it!

Welcome!

Jamie Simmermans last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/BlueDuckCopy/~3/409150574/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;We Donate with Squidoo, Do You?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Bruce Q &#8220;It&#8217;s vandalism. Or, on another level, it&#8217;s pissing all over everything just to scream &#8220;I&#8217;m here!&#8221;" I love it!</p>
<p>Welcome!</p>
<p>Jamie Simmermans last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/BlueDuckCopy/~3/409150574/" rel="nofollow">We Donate with Squidoo, Do You?</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: BruceQ</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2031</link>
		<dc:creator>BruceQ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2031</guid>
		<description>...oh, PS: Pull my finger!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;oh, PS: Pull my finger!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: GreenJello</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2030</link>
		<dc:creator>GreenJello</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:33:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2030</guid>
		<description>Having grown up in what would be classified as &quot;poverty&quot;, I can guarantee that there is a HUGE component of poverty as a mindset.

I never would have considered myself poor or wanting, if my peers hadn&#039;t pointed those things out to me. My family nurtured each other, my parents taught us the value of hard work and that doing well in school was All Important. We were loved and cared for, and encouraged.

All six of us kids are very successful, and our own children do not live in the (material) poverty we did growing up.

So, yes-- I firmly believe that respect and love are the true &quot;redeemers&quot; of poverty, whether or not the money/living situation improves or not. Attitude and being a decent human being are bigger than the poverty itself.

GreenJellos last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://greenjelloland.blogspot.com/2008/10/letterbox-lehi-sugar-factory.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Letterbox-- Lehi Sugar Factory&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having grown up in what would be classified as &#8220;poverty&#8221;, I can guarantee that there is a HUGE component of poverty as a mindset.</p>
<p>I never would have considered myself poor or wanting, if my peers hadn&#8217;t pointed those things out to me. My family nurtured each other, my parents taught us the value of hard work and that doing well in school was All Important. We were loved and cared for, and encouraged.</p>
<p>All six of us kids are very successful, and our own children do not live in the (material) poverty we did growing up.</p>
<p>So, yes&#8211; I firmly believe that respect and love are the true &#8220;redeemers&#8221; of poverty, whether or not the money/living situation improves or not. Attitude and being a decent human being are bigger than the poverty itself.</p>
<p>GreenJellos last blog post..<a href="http://greenjelloland.blogspot.com/2008/10/letterbox-lehi-sugar-factory.html" rel="nofollow">Letterbox&#8211; Lehi Sugar Factory</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: BruceQ</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2029</link>
		<dc:creator>BruceQ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2029</guid>
		<description>Howdy, folks, newbie here. I&#039;ve got loads o&#039; thoughts, let me see if I can organize &#039;em a bit...

1. Hot-diggety!!! This is awesome! This is why I love the Internet! I wonder if you all appreciate how completely unique this period of human development is. In one fell swoop, all geographic, ethnic, religious, economic, and political barriers have been erased. Everybody can talk to everybody, and anybody can find out virtually anything! The Universal Mind is birthed!

So okay, that&#039;s a bit hyperbolic, obviously there&#039;s still some people (even some whole peoples) that don&#039;t have access to the &#039;Net. But it&#039;s &lt;i&gt;almost&lt;/i&gt; true! And the beauty part is: It hasn&#039;t degenerated into complete anarchy and chaos! Humans Rock!

2. There is no difference between stickering for a cause and stickering for kicks. Nor is there a difference between stickering and postering, unless you&#039;re talking about asking business and home owners if you can display your poster on their property.

It&#039;s vandalism. Or, on another level, it&#039;s pissing all over everything just to scream &quot;I&#039;m here!&quot;

In fact, I take issue with calling it &quot;stickering.&quot;  I realize it&#039;s easier to type than &quot;putting up stickers,&quot; but giving it a cutesie name both legitimizes it and implies acceptance. And we cannot accept vandalism! That way lies madness.

It makes me furious when I see &quot;news&quot; programs referring to these punks and vandals as &quot;taggers&quot; or, worse, &quot;graffitti artists.&quot; And then they go on to actually show some of the asshole&#039;s &quot;work!&quot;  Is that supposed to help? Is that even &quot;news?&quot; I think not.

3. You go &#039;Dad! Hero is a term that&#039;s used way too much, so I won&#039;t, but you&#039;ve earned a place on my role models list for sure. What you did was very brave. You struck a blow for the side of good and we are in your debt. Then you blogged about it, making it bigger than just &quot;one small step...&quot; That, too, took courage!

4. Please don&#039;t misunderstand, there is no &quot;but&quot; implied here, you did a brave and good thing, and I salute you. That being said:

a. You made absolutely no difference to the vandal in question. You may have impressed the neighbors, and you certainly sparked a lively and important discussion, but I don&#039;t believe for a second that that kid is thinking about anything other than how much he hates you and how he can get back at you.

b. What were you thinking?!? Since no one else seems to have said it, I will. That was unbelievably dangerous. How far were you going to go? If he had brushed you off and walked away, were you going to do anything but call the cops? Yell at him, take his picture, report him, but never NEVER get anything like physical with him!

Scraping off stickers and removing graffitti sucks, believe me I know, but it&#039;s a total walk in the park compared to what might have happened.

I guess what I&#039;m saying is &quot;Great job! Now don&#039;t ever do that again!&quot;

Daisy, the kids, and the world need you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Howdy, folks, newbie here. I&#8217;ve got loads o&#8217; thoughts, let me see if I can organize &#8216;em a bit&#8230;</p>
<p>1. Hot-diggety!!! This is awesome! This is why I love the Internet! I wonder if you all appreciate how completely unique this period of human development is. In one fell swoop, all geographic, ethnic, religious, economic, and political barriers have been erased. Everybody can talk to everybody, and anybody can find out virtually anything! The Universal Mind is birthed!</p>
<p>So okay, that&#8217;s a bit hyperbolic, obviously there&#8217;s still some people (even some whole peoples) that don&#8217;t have access to the &#8216;Net. But it&#8217;s <i>almost</i> true! And the beauty part is: It hasn&#8217;t degenerated into complete anarchy and chaos! Humans Rock!</p>
<p>2. There is no difference between stickering for a cause and stickering for kicks. Nor is there a difference between stickering and postering, unless you&#8217;re talking about asking business and home owners if you can display your poster on their property.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s vandalism. Or, on another level, it&#8217;s pissing all over everything just to scream &#8220;I&#8217;m here!&#8221;</p>
<p>In fact, I take issue with calling it &#8220;stickering.&#8221;  I realize it&#8217;s easier to type than &#8220;putting up stickers,&#8221; but giving it a cutesie name both legitimizes it and implies acceptance. And we cannot accept vandalism! That way lies madness.</p>
<p>It makes me furious when I see &#8220;news&#8221; programs referring to these punks and vandals as &#8220;taggers&#8221; or, worse, &#8220;graffitti artists.&#8221; And then they go on to actually show some of the asshole&#8217;s &#8220;work!&#8221;  Is that supposed to help? Is that even &#8220;news?&#8221; I think not.</p>
<p>3. You go &#8216;Dad! Hero is a term that&#8217;s used way too much, so I won&#8217;t, but you&#8217;ve earned a place on my role models list for sure. What you did was very brave. You struck a blow for the side of good and we are in your debt. Then you blogged about it, making it bigger than just &#8220;one small step&#8230;&#8221; That, too, took courage!</p>
<p>4. Please don&#8217;t misunderstand, there is no &#8220;but&#8221; implied here, you did a brave and good thing, and I salute you. That being said:</p>
<p>a. You made absolutely no difference to the vandal in question. You may have impressed the neighbors, and you certainly sparked a lively and important discussion, but I don&#8217;t believe for a second that that kid is thinking about anything other than how much he hates you and how he can get back at you.</p>
<p>b. What were you thinking?!? Since no one else seems to have said it, I will. That was unbelievably dangerous. How far were you going to go? If he had brushed you off and walked away, were you going to do anything but call the cops? Yell at him, take his picture, report him, but never NEVER get anything like physical with him!</p>
<p>Scraping off stickers and removing graffitti sucks, believe me I know, but it&#8217;s a total walk in the park compared to what might have happened.</p>
<p>I guess what I&#8217;m saying is &#8220;Great job! Now don&#8217;t ever do that again!&#8221;</p>
<p>Daisy, the kids, and the world need you.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Stop. &#124; Writer Dad</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2028</link>
		<dc:creator>Stop. &#124; Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2028</guid>
		<description>[...] you&#8217;re reading this post for the first time, discussion spilled to the next day.   Share and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] you&#8217;re reading this post for the first time, discussion spilled to the next day.   Share and [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2027</link>
		<dc:creator>Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:34:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2027</guid>
		<description>Dot:  No need for apologies.  That&#039;s the wonderful thing about articulate discussion.  I&#039;m glad you read, and thanks for coming back and responding.  I love it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dot:  No need for apologies.  That&#8217;s the wonderful thing about articulate discussion.  I&#8217;m glad you read, and thanks for coming back and responding.  I love it!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Pianoforte &#124; Writer Dad</title>
		<link>http://writerdad.com/blogging/i-said-stop/comment-page-2/#comment-2026</link>
		<dc:creator>Pianoforte &#124; Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 16:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://writerdad.com/?p=1039#comment-2026</guid>
		<description>[...] post, Stop, and Wednesday&#8217;s follow up, I Said Stop, were quite the surprise.  Originally, I was going to post about the power of praise, but an early [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] post, Stop, and Wednesday&#8217;s follow up, I Said Stop, were quite the surprise.  Originally, I was going to post about the power of praise, but an early [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
