Every man’s memory is his private literature.
~Aldous Huxley
This weekend is the anniversary of two things woven inside one other well enough to tell a story.
That story is the prologue of how I came to be here, exchanging words with you.
Mia starts first grade next week.
It’s no less sad than starting Kindergarten, but admittedly less monumental. Last year at this time, I was sorting a mess of feelings as my tiny peanut, who it seemed was just a bundle in a blanket a few months before, was laying out her uniform and requesting pigtails for the first day of school.
We wondered about Mia’s teacher and what our girl would hear on the playground. We hoped she’d make friends easy, and crossed our fingers they’d be nice.
We prepared to release our daughter like a cub on the Savanna, free to find herself as predator or prey.
Anyone with a five year old and a beating heart knows exactly where I’m coming from, but this was last year, so it was still new to me.
How did you deal with it, Writer Dad?
I wrote.
I didn’t Dear Diary, or any such thing. I kept a journal, but it was just random thought strung together by memory in an ernest attempt to never forget.
Like taking pictures with a pencil.
I’d been doing that for a while, but even Daisy’s best efforts had still not swayed me to sit long enough to spin a yarn.
Mia moving to Kindergarten… well, that did the trick just fine.
We were reading a lot of chapter books; an even mix of what Mia liked and what we wanted her too. I thought I’d write something we could all agree on. So I sat down at the keyboard and started to write.
The story that spilled, was really little more than my own daughter talking for a few thousand words, as if I were rapidly scribbling as she pontificated about her life on the final week before Kindergarten. When the story was finished, I printed it out and folded it in half, in the worst mockery of a bound book.
I read the story, Daisy cried.
Then I read it to Mia.
This is my favorite part…
As Mia was hearing the book for the first time, she started to finish my sentences. Now that first little booklet could probably never get published, but it captured my baby better than a coffee table full of glossy photographs.
The next week, Mia went to school, and everything started to change.
In a couple months, I’d be midway through the first draft of a novel, and often assembling my thought in loopy rhythm.
This project is special. It’s exactly as old as my life as a writer, both sharing their first birthday this weekend.
Little has changed since that first draft.
I looked at the story with fresh eyes a few weeks back. I changed the names of people and locations, but otherwise the book is identical to the thirty pages printed (and awkwardly assembled) one year ago.
I hope you enjoy it. You’ll find an excerpt below:
Writer Dad
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Mia Maria and Two Times the Kindergarten:
Hola! (That means hello in Spanish).
My name is Mia Maria Robinson. I am five and a half years old, and in one week my life is going to change forever!
At least thatʼs what my mom and dad keep saying.
Next week, Iʼm starting Kindergarten at Abraham Lincoln Elementary School. My parents have been telling me about Kindergarten since before I was even four, but they just started acting weird like a couple of months ago.
I think it actually started when we went to buy my new uniforms for school. We went shopping for clothes, just like we do at the end of every Summer, but the whole time we were there, my mom and dad kept looking at each other with these really sad faces, even though they were still saying really happy words.
Like my mom said: “Youʼre such a big girl, Mia. I canʼt believe your going to be in Kindergarten,” and my dad said, “I canʼt believe how big you look in your uniform. Youʼre such a little Kindergirly.” And then he scooped me up with a great big hug and passed me to my mom like I was a churro.
Even though they were taking turns hugging me, they both seemed kind of sad…
Disclaimer: This is not Writer Dad’s voice. It’s Mia’s. Writer Dad just types a lot faster.
The last three Fridays: “The Truth in our Make-Believe,” “The Eighth Wonder of the World,” and “Bye Bye Butterfly.”
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You bastard. You hooked me in. I just bought the wee-book. I look forward to reading it (when its not 3 am and my eyes are not heavy from sleeping pills). Powerful setup (the post and the story).
Bravo, sir!
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Mia definitely takes after her dad in terms of use of words!
You both must enjoy having verbal jousts… though I’m sure you don’t always come out the winner
I loved Mia’s account of the huge life event of starting kindergarten. It’s a great keepsake you’ve given her by immortalizing her thoughs in writing.
Like a photo, the words will bring back the memories.
A special time, of sorts, for both you and Mia. One year ago big events took place! Now, it’s off to school for one, and off to writing for another. Have a great weekend!
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Very moving. It is quite funny because my daughter, even though she is only 2, is starting school on Tuesday. They grow up so gosh darn fast. I can’t believe it. I will have a story for you a little later today, it is being tweaked right now, but should be out in about 5 hours or so.
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“We prepared to release our daughter like a cub on the Savanna, free to find herself as predator or prey.”
No KIDDING. But it isn’t elementary that you really have to worry about, it’s middle school. And by the time they are old enough to go to middle school, there isn’t all that much a parent can do.
As long as Mia will speak up for herself, though, she should be pretty good.
Hayden Tompkinss last blog post..Beware the Dream Horizon
Due to my son’s age, he missed the kindergarden cutoff date this year…so I get one more year before I will send my little bug out into the wide open spaces of elementary school.
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Blogger Dad: Thanks for the purchase, I really appreciate it. I enjoyed your first Friday Funnies.
Scott: Verbal jousts is right. The mix of her mother and I is fierce. She has language and swagger, but is wonderful and sweet. Sigh. I’ll miss her next week.
Sal: Good luck with your daughter starting school on Tuesday. It’s a big step. She’ll come home just a little different. I read your story. Very sweet.
Lance: Thank you. I think I will (I’m off on Monday, yay!)
Hayden: You are a pound bar of chocolate correct all over the place. The idea of middle school makes me shudder. We plan to be traveling by then, so we might escape the horrors of middle school.
Stacey: Mia missed her cutoff by just a few weeks. At first, I was put out that she had to miss out on Kindergarten for a year, but it ended up being the best thing. Enjoy this final year, it will have valuable real estate in your mind forever.
My son is never going to school. I’m locking him up.
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I had 3 such “first week” school memories, that is so far from now and a memory that was put away, almost forgotten till I read your post. As I sit here with a huge hard lump in my throat my youngest visiting for a day, is working on her first job fresh out of college. Another first , there have been many as my cubs are 29,25,21. The up side….there will always be firsts when you have children…the down side….some wont be so nice!
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Aww! My eyes are a little moist now, thanks to you. Your writing really packs an emotional punch! I agree with Ryan, I’m not letting my kids go to school.
Although I don’t have any kids yet, so I’m not really worried about that. Thanks for adding a that sparkle in my day, Writer Dad!
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Writer Dad, you are one of a kind. You already know what I think of the story. Well done.
My little one started first grade this week.
I refused to be emotional about it.
Now I am.
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I’ve been reading a lot of posts about kids starting first grade this week. The consensus seems to be that it’s a very emotional time for the parents. Maybe you should think of it this way: elementary school, middle school, high school, college, advanced degree . .. you’re nowhere near rid of them yet
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Ryan: Use giant chains and a yale lock.
Just Anna: Wow. If you added up your cubs, they would be ready for AARP. You’ve finished with all the hard work I still have in front of me. Good job.
Nathalie: You’re very welcome. Now get to posting. Your site is fantastic there aren’t enough like it, and it lights up my reader not often enough. Maybe you could do a quick post linking to a really awesome narrative, aimed at new parents, about the beauty of compound interest.
Emily: You’re very welcome. I’m glad you liked it.
Vered: I’m sorry.
Marelisa: I would be heartbroken if I were. Also, I enjoyed your post about the swipe file.
Can’t wait for the chapter when she goes on her first date…I’ve been through it with my eldest daughter and now my youngest daughter is almost to the age also.
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It must be awfully scary and difficult to send your child off to school, the first time and every time after. Your daughter is lucky to have a dad with so much love to give and such kind words to share. Bravo!
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Hi WD
that was awesome mate
me and my wife are expecting our 1st child this coming January
being a dad is a wonderful feeling (i am not a dad yet though) but being a dad of a cute little baby girl is even batter
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Hi Writer Dad,
What a beautiful story. I love the line, “Like taking pictures with a pencil.” What a blessing it is to us that you began documenting your thoughts. Your words are a thing of beauty.
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Writer Dad,
I have gone through that 4 times and you still managed to make it a fresh experience as I read it. You….are….awesome…
You need a marketing campaign to reach every mommy blog out there. You are going to be so on fire you will be nothing but ash.
You made me remember one of the basic things I write, because somebody will read.
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Chris: About a month into the school year, she started talking about this boy in her class. It was troubling, but luckily it didn’t last too long.
Melissa: Thanks a lot for saying that. It isn’t scary so much as melancholy; it’s like a rainy day instead of a sunny one.
Sunil: Congratulations! Mia was a January baby, as was I. Great month to be born.
Barbara: You always say the nicest things. Eternal thanks.
Wendi: I got chills from your comment. Thank you. Let’s make that happen, okay. Then I can spend my days entertaining you guys. It’ll be awesome.
Miguel de Luis: When we touch others, we turn around and touch ourselves. Thanks for reading.
To be called a girlieman is one thing. To be called a Kindergirly man, well… is quite another.
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“Every man’s memory is his private literature. ”
This is what makes me so sad about when our elder loved ones die; so many amazing stories gone forever.
What a lucky daughter you have to have such a loving and caring father! Cute.
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