Awesome A Capella

March 17, 2009

This post, originally titled Pianoforte, was written upon my return from taking Mia to school back in the beginning of last October. It’s one of those little stories that makes me grateful to have Writer Dad. As I read this story back, I realized it would have just been one of a million tales that may have never been recalled. The true beauty of a personal blog is the amount of forever you can easily make. Enjoy.

“Music is what feelings sound like.”

~Author Unknown

img_0143The stars in the sky occasionally align and I find myself alone with Mia during our daily drive to school. These twenty minutes are treasure. Mia’s two and a half years older than her brother, so conversation with her, as I’m sure you can imagine, exists on a slightly different plane.

This morning, I formally introduced her to the musical stylings of Nirvana. ”What’s Nirvana,” she asked. ”It’s like Heaven,” I said, “only easier to get to.”

I love music.

I thank my parents for permeating my childhood with a ton of tunes. We didn’t have a wide range of diversity; my parents pretty much dug deep on classic rock, but they loved what their choices, attended concerts with semi-frequency, and dribbled their affection down to me.

I love it all. I’ve a soft spot for the classics of course, but my mac’s packed with 80 gigs, jamming everything from Marshall Mathers to Mozart.

My singing voice is terrible. Really, at my best, I sound like a love sick moose. Despite this, I have a decent ear for pulling apart the various sounds in a track. Mia puts my skills to shame. At two and a half, all on her own, she started to identify composers off the classical station in the car.

“What’s that?” Mia asked this morning, while listening to one of Cobain’s quieter numbers. I had to back the track six times to hear what she did: Dave Grohl, lightly tapping his drumstick on a tightened cymbal in composed momentum.

Just a few minutes from campus, I started to explain how Nirvana were BIG TIME when I was in high school.

“Why?” she asked.

“Because they had a new sound,” I said.

“What did it sound like?”

I bounced the track back to “Smells Like Teen Spirit,” and played the first minute. We turned onto her school’s street.

“That’s not a new sound,” she said. “That’s pianoforte.”

Pianoforte: ORIGIN mid 18th century ‘soft and loud,’ expressing the gradation in tone.

Yes, Mia, that’s correct. Nirvana is a wonderful example of pianoforte.

We kissed and she ran from the car to her first grade classroom. Again, I thought how lucky we are that she’s in a class that is challenging her eager mind.

Later on, conversation resumed. Our words drifted to the life, and tragic end of Kurt Cobain. 

Nirvana has since become one of her favorite bands. She can’t tolerate it all and thinks that some of it is simply, “noisy guitars yelling.” To that it’s hard to argue. Love Buzz, off Bleach, is one of Max’s favorites. Sharing old music with my children is a little like hearing it for the first time, but through the ears of someone you didn’t know you would ever be.

Writer Dad

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  • Teena
    This is MY favorite!
  • This...this POST. It's like you reached into my soul! I love music. LOVE music. You quote is so fecking apt, I can't stand it. And that you foster that love of music in your own children? That's makes you father of the year in my book. Well done. (Just remember to let me know what they think of Jimi! Or "Shiny Happy People".)

    :)
  • I love the picture. Her big brown eyes exude kindness and intelligence. You know what makes me the happiest? Knowing that she will be encouraged to continue asking questions, that there are people around her (Mom, Dad and teachers) who will never squelch her quest for knowledge, and that those eyes will always be happy eyes. It's gut wrenching to see children whose eyes have died.

    I laughed at your assessment of your singing voice, and how it didn't stop your love for music. I love music too and consider it my favorite mind altering substance. (Never took drugs.) However, I am a monotone whose children have actually been known to say, "Mom. Please. Stop. Singing."

    So I dance. Or did. Until I blew out both knees doing Irish hardshoe.
  • That is a gorgeous photo of your daughter. Daughters and Daddies - there's something special that goes on there.

    Thanks for letting us get to know her genius a little. Children are amazing.

    Jamie
  • Janice: Well if the music was still playing in the background, I hope it was one of his softer tunes instead of the "loud noisy guitar" songs. : > )

    Trina: Well said, Trina. Confidence is definitely an area Mia has little difficulty in. Her questions are endless. Fortunately, my answers are tireless.

    Daisy: Ha, it's true. I love them for nostalgia more than anything. They were one of my two favorites once upon a time. It's hard for that to totally melt away.
  • smart little cookie you've got there! wowzers. I am always amazed at what the little ones can teach us/tell us about the world.

    I have to admit, I think Nirvana is a bit like noisy guitars yelling, but hey, there's music for all kinds of tastes.

    Looking forward to reading more about Mia! :)

    Daisy
  • Trina
    Nirvana! In all its applications. We love Nirvana too, but pure Nirvana exists in Mia applying a concept she knows to a unique situation. Now, thats learning and knowledge at it's best. Also, beauty in her not just purely accepting what you said about Nirvana being 'new'. Rather, she was confident enough to apply her knowledge to the conversation. Fabulous!
  • Janice
    Beautiful post ! You paint her brightness so well she came smiling off the page, walked past me and ran into school, swinging her bag, the music still playing in the background.

    I sing and play guitar with my daughter. It helps us put the tougher teenage times behind us and often makes me so happy I cry. Being able to live every colour and scent and sound of those moments and then capture them and keep them alive forever in writing makes sense of everything. It's a hymn we send up to the universe to say thank you for letting us be alive, for letting us be parents, for letting us be writers.
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