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		<title>By: asrai</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 18:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are no do-overs, but perfection is not required, forgivness comes easily and children are great teachers for those who are willing to learn.

Great piece. My daughter has a great ability to read language, she can figure out by sight nearly any word thrown at her, at six. She still has to catch up on understanding each word and how the words link together to make a story. There are also lots of words at her reading level that I have to explain, and I try to remember the rule &quot;don&#039;t define a word with the word in the definintion&quot;.
It&#039;s great when she uses those words in a sentence later on, in the correct manner.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;asrais last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://comingalive.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/support-system/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Support System&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are no do-overs, but perfection is not required, forgivness comes easily and children are great teachers for those who are willing to learn.</p>
<p>Great piece. My daughter has a great ability to read language, she can figure out by sight nearly any word thrown at her, at six. She still has to catch up on understanding each word and how the words link together to make a story. There are also lots of words at her reading level that I have to explain, and I try to remember the rule &#8220;don&#8217;t define a word with the word in the definintion&#8221;.<br />
It&#8217;s great when she uses those words in a sentence later on, in the correct manner.</p>
<p><abbr><em>asrais last blog post..<a href="http://comingalive.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/support-system/" rel="nofollow">Support System</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: asrai</title>
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		<dc:creator>asrai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 18:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are no do-overs, but perfection is not required, forgivness comes easily and children are great teachers for those who are willing to learn.

Great piece. My daughter has a great ability to read language, she can figure out by sight nearly any word thrown at her, at six. She still has to catch up on understanding each word and how the words link together to make a story. There are also lots of words at her reading level that I have to explain, and I try to remember the rule &quot;don&#039;t define a word with the word in the definintion&quot;.
It&#039;s great when she uses those words in a sentence later on, in the correct manner.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;asrais last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://comingalive.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/support-system/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Support System&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are no do-overs, but perfection is not required, forgivness comes easily and children are great teachers for those who are willing to learn.</p>
<p>Great piece. My daughter has a great ability to read language, she can figure out by sight nearly any word thrown at her, at six. She still has to catch up on understanding each word and how the words link together to make a story. There are also lots of words at her reading level that I have to explain, and I try to remember the rule &#8220;don&#8217;t define a word with the word in the definintion&#8221;.<br />
It&#8217;s great when she uses those words in a sentence later on, in the correct manner.</p>
<p><abbr><em>asrais last blog post..<a href="http://comingalive.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/support-system/" rel="nofollow">Support System</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Hump Day Reading for the Restless Soul &#8212; Write From Home</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 07:32:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chase:  That&#039;s why you&#039;re good at your job.  I liked one of your posts last week where you were talking about your job and you said straight up, &quot;I like my job.  I&#039;m good at it.&quot;  And then you articulated why.  I am sure you are a fantastic teacher.

Lance:  At this point, Mia wouldn&#039;t have it any other way.  She&#039;s the first one to notice when someone else is getting baby talked.  You are absolutely right about your points.  We are all human, and could at the very least connect on that level.  It&#039;s all about respect.

Mom:  Thank you for never talking baby talk to me.  It has made me the articulate person I am today.  Of course, it&#039;s given me quite a colorful vocabulary, and has also made me use the delete button a LOT, as the favorite words we use are not always appropriate for the Dad part of Writer Dad.  Your filter has gotten much better though.  Thanks, and I love you too.

Marelisa:  I love it when you use the flower pot analogy.  It is perfect.  I want our children to be the most beautiful, bountiful plants they can be.

Sonia:  Tone is exceedingly important.  You can use any vocabulary, but you should be considerate of your tone.  They can&#039;t hear deep sounds as well as they can high ones, but use real syllables.  As to your son, I know the precise emotion.

Patricia:  What a wonderful, wonderful story.   Thank you so much for sharing this.  I read it a few days ago, and now again as I&#039;m returning to answer.  Beautiful, Patricia.

Laurie:  Wonderful and honest.  We live, learn, and do better.  Thank you so much for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chase:  That&#8217;s why you&#8217;re good at your job.  I liked one of your posts last week where you were talking about your job and you said straight up, &#8220;I like my job.  I&#8217;m good at it.&#8221;  And then you articulated why.  I am sure you are a fantastic teacher.</p>
<p>Lance:  At this point, Mia wouldn&#8217;t have it any other way.  She&#8217;s the first one to notice when someone else is getting baby talked.  You are absolutely right about your points.  We are all human, and could at the very least connect on that level.  It&#8217;s all about respect.</p>
<p>Mom:  Thank you for never talking baby talk to me.  It has made me the articulate person I am today.  Of course, it&#8217;s given me quite a colorful vocabulary, and has also made me use the delete button a LOT, as the favorite words we use are not always appropriate for the Dad part of Writer Dad.  Your filter has gotten much better though.  Thanks, and I love you too.</p>
<p>Marelisa:  I love it when you use the flower pot analogy.  It is perfect.  I want our children to be the most beautiful, bountiful plants they can be.</p>
<p>Sonia:  Tone is exceedingly important.  You can use any vocabulary, but you should be considerate of your tone.  They can&#8217;t hear deep sounds as well as they can high ones, but use real syllables.  As to your son, I know the precise emotion.</p>
<p>Patricia:  What a wonderful, wonderful story.   Thank you so much for sharing this.  I read it a few days ago, and now again as I&#8217;m returning to answer.  Beautiful, Patricia.</p>
<p>Laurie:  Wonderful and honest.  We live, learn, and do better.  Thank you so much for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chase:  That&#039;s why you&#039;re good at your job.  I liked one of your posts last week where you were talking about your job and you said straight up, &quot;I like my job.  I&#039;m good at it.&quot;  And then you articulated why.  I am sure you are a fantastic teacher.

Lance:  At this point, Mia wouldn&#039;t have it any other way.  She&#039;s the first one to notice when someone else is getting baby talked.  You are absolutely right about your points.  We are all human, and could at the very least connect on that level.  It&#039;s all about respect.

Mom:  Thank you for never talking baby talk to me.  It has made me the articulate person I am today.  Of course, it&#039;s given me quite a colorful vocabulary, and has also made me use the delete button a LOT, as the favorite words we use are not always appropriate for the Dad part of Writer Dad.  Your filter has gotten much better though.  Thanks, and I love you too.

Marelisa:  I love it when you use the flower pot analogy.  It is perfect.  I want our children to be the most beautiful, bountiful plants they can be.

Sonia:  Tone is exceedingly important.  You can use any vocabulary, but you should be considerate of your tone.  They can&#039;t hear deep sounds as well as they can high ones, but use real syllables.  As to your son, I know the precise emotion.

Patricia:  What a wonderful, wonderful story.   Thank you so much for sharing this.  I read it a few days ago, and now again as I&#039;m returning to answer.  Beautiful, Patricia.

Laurie:  Wonderful and honest.  We live, learn, and do better.  Thank you so much for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chase:  That&#8217;s why you&#8217;re good at your job.  I liked one of your posts last week where you were talking about your job and you said straight up, &#8220;I like my job.  I&#8217;m good at it.&#8221;  And then you articulated why.  I am sure you are a fantastic teacher.</p>
<p>Lance:  At this point, Mia wouldn&#8217;t have it any other way.  She&#8217;s the first one to notice when someone else is getting baby talked.  You are absolutely right about your points.  We are all human, and could at the very least connect on that level.  It&#8217;s all about respect.</p>
<p>Mom:  Thank you for never talking baby talk to me.  It has made me the articulate person I am today.  Of course, it&#8217;s given me quite a colorful vocabulary, and has also made me use the delete button a LOT, as the favorite words we use are not always appropriate for the Dad part of Writer Dad.  Your filter has gotten much better though.  Thanks, and I love you too.</p>
<p>Marelisa:  I love it when you use the flower pot analogy.  It is perfect.  I want our children to be the most beautiful, bountiful plants they can be.</p>
<p>Sonia:  Tone is exceedingly important.  You can use any vocabulary, but you should be considerate of your tone.  They can&#8217;t hear deep sounds as well as they can high ones, but use real syllables.  As to your son, I know the precise emotion.</p>
<p>Patricia:  What a wonderful, wonderful story.   Thank you so much for sharing this.  I read it a few days ago, and now again as I&#8217;m returning to answer.  Beautiful, Patricia.</p>
<p>Laurie:  Wonderful and honest.  We live, learn, and do better.  Thank you so much for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:10:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My sons are now 19 and 16 and I wish I did have some do-overs.  The older one suffered from depression and mood swings and terrorized us for several years.  He is now settling down as he matures.  I would love to have a do-over.  I didn&#039;t learn until late in the game the best way to respond to his outbursts even though I kept asking professionals to let me in on the secret.   If I had known more earlier on, we might have gotten it all under control before so much yuck happened in my family.  Now everything is much better but we all sport scares from those years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My sons are now 19 and 16 and I wish I did have some do-overs.  The older one suffered from depression and mood swings and terrorized us for several years.  He is now settling down as he matures.  I would love to have a do-over.  I didn&#8217;t learn until late in the game the best way to respond to his outbursts even though I kept asking professionals to let me in on the secret.   If I had known more earlier on, we might have gotten it all under control before so much yuck happened in my family.  Now everything is much better but we all sport scares from those years.</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My sons are now 19 and 16 and I wish I did have some do-overs.  The older one suffered from depression and mood swings and terrorized us for several years.  He is now settling down as he matures.  I would love to have a do-over.  I didn&#039;t learn until late in the game the best way to respond to his outbursts even though I kept asking professionals to let me in on the secret.   If I had known more earlier on, we might have gotten it all under control before so much yuck happened in my family.  Now everything is much better but we all sport scares from those years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My sons are now 19 and 16 and I wish I did have some do-overs.  The older one suffered from depression and mood swings and terrorized us for several years.  He is now settling down as he matures.  I would love to have a do-over.  I didn&#8217;t learn until late in the game the best way to respond to his outbursts even though I kept asking professionals to let me in on the secret.   If I had known more earlier on, we might have gotten it all under control before so much yuck happened in my family.  Now everything is much better but we all sport scares from those years.</p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 04:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WD, another wonderful gathering of words to read today and about some of my favorite things - children, learning and words. You have some marvelous comments I have enjoyed also today.

It has been humbling to have a child with different learning abilities and her brain works so amazingly differently...when something goes into long term memory it is essential gone for good....I would have to use a distinctive word everyday for 2 weeks and then every day for the rest of her life....if I wanted her to have a great vocabulary...thus she is unable to formulate questions or have a moral compass at the right moment....
She would always learn Uncle Friar&#039;s BOGUS stuff!  and we would hear it forever....:)
When I was thinking about teaching special ed as a career I did an internship with challenged kids ( 7 year olds) for the summer, and every Sunday I taught a pre-kindergarten class of 4-5 years olds in a different part of town.  Every Sunday I was eating humble pie about what was accomplished the week before in my class.
I knew I could not do this as a career.
I think I should write an article about all the things I have learned about learning and living life from a child with a hole in the pre-frontal cortex....Wow it has been a gift that is immeasurable and always humbling.
All three of my kids challenge my thinking and that of the world around then, but in such profoundly different ways...
They all say:&quot;Mom sometimes I can&#039;t tell what you are trying to say?&quot;
Better to listen!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Patricias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://patriciaswisdom.com/2008/11/hats-off-to-elizabeth-cady-stanton-and-the-revising-committee/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hats off to Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WD, another wonderful gathering of words to read today and about some of my favorite things &#8211; children, learning and words. You have some marvelous comments I have enjoyed also today.</p>
<p>It has been humbling to have a child with different learning abilities and her brain works so amazingly differently&#8230;when something goes into long term memory it is essential gone for good&#8230;.I would have to use a distinctive word everyday for 2 weeks and then every day for the rest of her life&#8230;.if I wanted her to have a great vocabulary&#8230;thus she is unable to formulate questions or have a moral compass at the right moment&#8230;.<br />
She would always learn Uncle Friar&#8217;s BOGUS stuff!  and we would hear it forever&#8230;.:)<br />
When I was thinking about teaching special ed as a career I did an internship with challenged kids ( 7 year olds) for the summer, and every Sunday I taught a pre-kindergarten class of 4-5 years olds in a different part of town.  Every Sunday I was eating humble pie about what was accomplished the week before in my class.<br />
I knew I could not do this as a career.<br />
I think I should write an article about all the things I have learned about learning and living life from a child with a hole in the pre-frontal cortex&#8230;.Wow it has been a gift that is immeasurable and always humbling.<br />
All three of my kids challenge my thinking and that of the world around then, but in such profoundly different ways&#8230;<br />
They all say:&#8221;Mom sometimes I can&#8217;t tell what you are trying to say?&#8221;<br />
Better to listen!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Patricias last blog post..<a href="http://patriciaswisdom.com/2008/11/hats-off-to-elizabeth-cady-stanton-and-the-revising-committee/" rel="nofollow">Hats off to Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 04:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WD, another wonderful gathering of words to read today and about some of my favorite things - children, learning and words. You have some marvelous comments I have enjoyed also today.

It has been humbling to have a child with different learning abilities and her brain works so amazingly differently...when something goes into long term memory it is essential gone for good....I would have to use a distinctive word everyday for 2 weeks and then every day for the rest of her life....if I wanted her to have a great vocabulary...thus she is unable to formulate questions or have a moral compass at the right moment....
She would always learn Uncle Friar&#039;s BOGUS stuff!  and we would hear it forever....:)
When I was thinking about teaching special ed as a career I did an internship with challenged kids ( 7 year olds) for the summer, and every Sunday I taught a pre-kindergarten class of 4-5 years olds in a different part of town.  Every Sunday I was eating humble pie about what was accomplished the week before in my class.
I knew I could not do this as a career.
I think I should write an article about all the things I have learned about learning and living life from a child with a hole in the pre-frontal cortex....Wow it has been a gift that is immeasurable and always humbling.
All three of my kids challenge my thinking and that of the world around then, but in such profoundly different ways...
They all say:&quot;Mom sometimes I can&#039;t tell what you are trying to say?&quot;
Better to listen!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Patricias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://patriciaswisdom.com/2008/11/hats-off-to-elizabeth-cady-stanton-and-the-revising-committee/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hats off to Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WD, another wonderful gathering of words to read today and about some of my favorite things &#8211; children, learning and words. You have some marvelous comments I have enjoyed also today.</p>
<p>It has been humbling to have a child with different learning abilities and her brain works so amazingly differently&#8230;when something goes into long term memory it is essential gone for good&#8230;.I would have to use a distinctive word everyday for 2 weeks and then every day for the rest of her life&#8230;.if I wanted her to have a great vocabulary&#8230;thus she is unable to formulate questions or have a moral compass at the right moment&#8230;.<br />
She would always learn Uncle Friar&#8217;s BOGUS stuff!  and we would hear it forever&#8230;.:)<br />
When I was thinking about teaching special ed as a career I did an internship with challenged kids ( 7 year olds) for the summer, and every Sunday I taught a pre-kindergarten class of 4-5 years olds in a different part of town.  Every Sunday I was eating humble pie about what was accomplished the week before in my class.<br />
I knew I could not do this as a career.<br />
I think I should write an article about all the things I have learned about learning and living life from a child with a hole in the pre-frontal cortex&#8230;.Wow it has been a gift that is immeasurable and always humbling.<br />
All three of my kids challenge my thinking and that of the world around then, but in such profoundly different ways&#8230;<br />
They all say:&#8221;Mom sometimes I can&#8217;t tell what you are trying to say?&#8221;<br />
Better to listen!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Patricias last blog post..<a href="http://patriciaswisdom.com/2008/11/hats-off-to-elizabeth-cady-stanton-and-the-revising-committee/" rel="nofollow">Hats off to Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kyddryn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyddryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 01:16:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s &quot;bother&quot;, not &quot;bather&quot;...this is what happens when you type and tickle the child at the same time...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kyddryns last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://kyddryn.blogspot.com/2008/11/nanowrimo-note.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;NaNoWriMo Note&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s &#8220;bother&#8221;, not &#8220;bather&#8221;&#8230;this is what happens when you type and tickle the child at the same time&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kyddryns last blog post..<a href="http://kyddryn.blogspot.com/2008/11/nanowrimo-note.html" rel="nofollow">NaNoWriMo Note</a></em></abbr></p>
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