• Lu
    Hi Writer Dad,

    I just came across your blog today and I really enjoy your writing. I find it very refreshing to read a "daddy blog."

    This post especially tickled me - I was a tween when Kurt Cobain died and spent a lot of my teen years pretty, well, obsessed with Nirvana. This is a hilarious yet impressive conversation to have with your little girl.

    <abbr>Lus last blog post..Death in the Family</abbr>
  • The kids will always outdo you when it comes to music.

    My daughter was on the receiving end of my effort to expose her to all kinds of music, raising a mild objection only once when she was about four, about halfway through side one of Captain Beefheart's "Trout Mast Replica". Her first love is the one genre that still eludes me - Broadway show tunes.

    And I observed my then one year old son singing/chanting while randomly pressing the buttons on a Disney music book. Now, at fifteen he can still memorize the background music of most of the movies he's seen. And he can already play guitar better than me.

    <abbr>Jaybees last blog post..An Old Fogey’s Guide to David Bowie:</abbr>
  • Writer Dad
    Miguel: Then I'll just HAVE to pop out a review of your first english book. : > )
  • Thanks WriterDad, I'm honored to be in that list.

    Btw, I'm warning you, I will be writing a Wee Review of one of your Wee Books. (Fear, Fear :) )

    <abbr>Miguel de Luiss last blog post..Hope can save your life.</abbr>
  • Writer Dad
    Emily: That's really sweet that you would visit me for inspiration. I am touched. Thank you.

    Sharon: Thank you, Sharon. It is nice to have you. Please, keep the slobbering to a minimum. The last time the site got too moist, I had to shut it down for a week, and my traffic plummeted to zero.
  • l have just bumped into your site and its realy full of heavy rich stuff , oooh dear l am not yet in the parentship ride. But thanx to u!
    WD, l will go back to your old posts and lick them! You are a star!

    <abbr>sharons last blog post..Ask and It Is Given-Segment Intending</abbr>
  • Excellent point, WD, that we as parents set the tone with what we give them to pay attention to. You sure are brilliant.

    I am feeling the need to go back through and read much of your older stuff and comments and all today because I am feeling uninspired and well, like I'm not paying attention lately. I need a little brain food so here I came.
  • Writer Dad
    Emily: Smart kids are definitely those who are paying attention, but paying attention to what? We must give them the right things to pay attention to. If our children are smart, than they're doing a good job paying attention, and we're doing a good job with what we're feeding them.

    Blake: I was a bit late to the Nirvana party. At first, I thought it was too trendy. I actually didn't stand until the second wave. I've bought three copies of Nevermind since, and went through a whole bootleg phase. My daughter really likes Green Day, Belle and Sebastian, Fiona Apple, the Beatles, and Beck.

    Apathy Lounge: His issues have nothing to do with us, and hey, you're here now.

    Dave: Thanks, as always.

    RITA: WOW, a story about your oldest daughter. I didn't catch that the first time through. It looks like I shouldn't be racing through these comments so fast. Your comment definitely deserves a revisit.

    That's amazing. Mia is nothing like that, she has to work hard, practicing every day to make baby steps. It is definitely worth it though, music makes us hear the world differently. My sister had a friend growing up, they're actually still very close, that was the same way. The trumpet was her instrument of choice, but she needed only ten minutes with an instrument to understand its fundamentals. I just can't imagine that kind of genius. Telling you the notes you were yelling in... unbelievable! Sorry I missed your comment, the first time Rita, it certainly deserved more.

    Sean
  • WD, I don't expect you to reply to this as it's just a quick comment.

    Just wanted to say how talented I think you and your family are. Better still I love the way you nurture the talents you discover. Brilliant.

    <abbr>Dave Fowlers last blog post..Flaps. Check. Undercarriage. Check.</abbr>
  • Sorry I wasn't around to provide some support for you in my own weird way. Benjamin sounds like he's got issues. I'm just saying.

    <abbr>apathy lounges last blog post.."Nice to meet you. Hey, can I call you Adolf?"</abbr>
  • I'm glad you put the definition of pianoforte in there. I'd forgotten what it meant. Been a long time since junior high band.

    I was the first person I knew that bought the Smells Like Teen Spirit tape. I saw the video on MTV and knew I had to have the tape. I wore it out. Eventually the rest of my small Mississippi town decided they liked it too once it made the top of the charts. Well, not all of the town, just the cool people.

    My 7yo daughter likes a variety of stuff. Flobots, Warren Zevon, Owl City, Barenaked Ladies, Toby Mac, Miley Cyrus,The Killers, David Crowder. She's only held back by what she's exposed to.

    Blakes last blog post..Boarding Schools?
  • Hey WD, sorry I'm behind. I always feel like I am a day late and a dollar short to your fabulous comments section.

    I love your posts about your kids. They are filled with patience and love. Your daughter is "paying attention". That is what I like to respond with when people say how smart my kids are. "I think they're just paying attention." :)

    The Stop conversations were really interesting to read. You sure do have a great set of people here contributing to make this one really wonderful blog.

    Emilys last blog post..The Day I Rescued My Dogs
  • Writer Dad
    Matthew: I've never heard of him, but I will check him out. Sounds cool.

    Evelyn: No waiting, Mia's a force to be reckoned with now.

    B. Wilde: Children are a treasure chest, so long as we're willing to open it. Dancing with my wife and children, is one of the treasures in each of our weeks.

    Barbara: I'm as proud as they come. My children are definitely one of the primary reasons I do what I do, here on this blog. One day, all these words will be theirs.
  • Hi Writer Dad - You sound like such a proud father. That's so good to hear in a world where many are so busy they miss those growing up days of their children. What special memories you have, and to think they are now documented in your blog.

    Barbara Swaffords last blog post..Just A Click Away - Open Mic
  • Music is can be such a powerful way of learning. One of my favorite things is to put on some of our oldest daughter's teenage-bubble gum-music and dance with our two and a half year old girl. However, no matter the music, it's the child who always seems to teach us the most. Would love to read about the beautiful conversation that you mentioned at the end of your post.
  • At such a young age, Mia sure knows her stuff! It's great that she has a questioning mind. She looks like a force to reckon with, in time to come!!

    Evelyn Lims last blog post..How Would You Cross The River?
  • @Ian: Congratulations on the new job! I hope to hear more blogs on it!

    @Writer Dad: My wife doesn't condone Eminem in the house. She won't even listen to his slower, well-thought out songs (If I Had?)

    Beck is cool, you can't deny that. But if you want to try something folksier, try Jeffrey Lewis. Search out "Williamsburg Will Oldham Horror", "Posters", "The Complete History of Punk Rock from 1950 to 1975", "The Last Time I Did Acid I Went Insane". You can find all of these videos on YouTube. He is the best lyricist working today.

    Matthew Drydens last blog post..I Make A Difference, Now What About You?
  • Writer Dad
    Marelisa: Mia does not, nor has she ever had any difficulty sharing her opinion; amazingly like her mom and dad.

    KittyTown: Always and forever. It was actually a 50 Cent song, guest starring the LBC's one and only; the classic "P.I.M.P." I can't wait for the day I can play her the song and tell her the story.

    Ian: My pleasure. I loved what you had to say. I couldn't agree more. The way the free market is set up, corporations lose their power when consumers stand their ground, but we won't stand so tall. We're not willing to do that anymore, and that's truly a shame. I believe your comment inspired a future post. Be well.

    UrbanVox: I'd settle for one instrument with fluidity. That would be Nirvana for me.

    Guitar Dad: The Beatles are big time with the kids. My daughter really likes Fiona Apple and Belle and Sebastian. My son's favorite is Beck. He likes to try to memorize the words.
  • As you might imagine, music is a major force around Guitar Dad's house. We shout out a "Who's ready to dance to some songs?" and the kids go wild. Everything from Foo Fighters and Aerosmith to the Beatles and B-52s blares from the stereo and all kinds of wacky bodily contortions ensue.

    Of course I often drag the guitar out and we sing a few kiddie numbers, but with a 3- and 5-year-old calling the shots, distraction comes easily and it's onto other pursuits far sooner than I like.

    All of this is just to say, yes, music is the great universal language, and "the world would be a terrible place without it, a miserable place," Henry Miller declared, and he's so right.

    Catch up with you later.

    Guitar Dads last blog post..Competing for the Computer
  • my dad is a maestro...
    I've tried every intrument in the world till I hit the drums...
    hehehe LOVE the drums...
    still play some guitar! :)

    TB's VERY musical... specially when we're talking bout noise!!
    makes sense? didn;t think so... 2 am!!! :)
  • Ian
    WD,

    Thanks for the mention. You are too kind.

    More importantly, thank you for the inspiration you have provided through your writing. I am about to embark on a search for a new job. This might not be a big deal to some, but it is to me as I have been at the current position for over 7 years now. During that time, I have earned a Master's degree and a lot of experience in my field.

    I am nervous because I fear the amount of expertise that will be expected thanks to my new academic credentials. This is a competitive industry, and while not a competitive person by nature, I am more than capable of working to my potential.

    In any case, I'm rambling again. Just wanted to say thanks for being an example for me in taking the steps to overcome fear of the unknown and step out into a bigger opportunity for my career.

    Be well.

    Ians last blog post..China Monitoring Skype?
  • kittytown
    Can I brag about Mia too since she's my niece?

    This is a great story, but it's not even my favorite story about Mia and music. When Mia was maybe 2 or 3, WD was taking her for a walk and holding her. A car drove by blaring a Snoop song (can't remember which one). Mia started yelling "Put me down! Put me down!" So WD put her down and she started dancing to Snoop Dogg right there on the sidewalk.
  • Hi Writer Dad: What I like is that she substituted her own judgment for yours. You announced it was new sound, she listened, came to a different conclusion, and assertively voiced her own conclusion.

    Marelisas last blog post..Four Outstanding Thoughts on Innovation
  • Writer Dad
    Rosie: No doubt. I LOVE talking to my children. I'm sure that they'll help me to refine my thought forevermore.

    Kimmelin: Thanks, I LOVE rocking! Her first favorite song was "Hey Ya." She was two when it first came out. She would dance like crazy and say, "again, again!" My son's favorite artist is Beck. He loves to try and memorize the words.

    Sharing is my pleasure.

    Vered: She's not a (musical) genius, but she is an excellent learner who is always hungry. She can play Twinkle Twinkle and Lightly Row on the violin, but has to work hard and practice. Thank you for your compliment. I'll whisper it in her ear tonight (she knows today's post was about her and her pianoforte comment).

    Chris: She teaches me stuff all the time.

    Susan: There's no question about it. Now that I'm a parent, I often remember things from my childhood that I don't think I ever would have remembered a few years back.

    James: Violin is her instrument of choice, then piano. For my boy, it's drums and then guitar. I'll write the lyrics. We'll demolish dreary radio in a decade and a half.
  • Wow, she really picked up on that rather quickly. Get her a guitar and let her create the next musical revolution!

    Jamess last blog post..A New Sheriff!
  • Anytime you and your child can share a special interest, I think it deepens your connection. She will probably always think of you now whenever she hears a pianoforte (so will I since I never heard the word before!) or Nirvana.

    I have to admit I'm a bit envious. While you are discussing the finer points of groundbreaking music with your little girl, I recently heard my husband trying to explain the details of fantasy football to ours.
  • Man I didn't even a word such as "pianoforte" existed until today!
  • Your daughter is a musical genius.

    Seriously, I'm impressed.

    Vered - MomGrinds last blog post..Beauty Standards Have Sure Changed
  • WD,

    You rock. You just totally rock.

    I love that your ~ 7-year-old daughter knows about pianoforte. How cool is that?

    Our kids, the older two, anywy, at 5 1/2 and almost 4, have taken to James Blunt and Led Zeppelin in recent months. From the back seat Landon will call forward,

    "Hey, Mom! Put on that song that goes...you know..." and he'll sing, hum or otherwise mimic some unrecognizable version of a Zeppelin song...only suggestive of the tune because it's the one he always asks for these days. God, how I love the ingenuity of children!

    Thanks for sharing...

    Kimmelins last blog post..Palin-Biden Vice Presidential Debate: My Two Cents
  • The wonder that children bring into our everyday lives is almost unidentifiable sometimes. It is wonderful that you take the time to enjoy those moments, stretch them out and strengthen your connection with your child. :)
  • Writer Dad
    Betsy: Peter Pan is always welcome, as long as he isn't the creepy Michael Jackson version. I'm really glad you enjoyed this week. Me too.

    CK Lunchbox: Tara, Rude Cactus, and yours truly? In all honesty, her name isn't really Mia. I just gave her a pseudonym early and it stuck. It's actually a shortened version of one of her many nicknames: Bubalamia. It will be fun to bust the naughty rhymes with my little ones, but I need at least two digits in their birthdays.

    Rita: Look at you all double dipping. You may call me Writer Dad or Sean. Just don't call me Shirley (I know the jokes tired; so am I).

    Sal: Good resolution.

    Jamie: When I tell her that I wrote about her "on the internet," she beams.

    Rita/Sal: If you guys would like to duke it out, might I suggest that you do so on the Copyblogger post, "Are You a Writer?" It needs about twenty comments to give it prime time status in the sidebar.

    Jim: I'd like to think so. Thanks.

    Beth: I LOVE unusual time signatures!

    Hayden: You are my children's biggest online cheerleader, Hayden. Muchos gracias.

    Motivate Thyself: It will be the hardest job you'll ever love; worth every drop of blood.
  • That's a great story Sean. My wife and I are working on the kids thing and I'm scared and excited, but mostly excited. Hearing about your children and the wonderful relationship you share is a real inspiration. Eric.

    "Motivate Thyself"s last blog post..Review: Pandora Radio From The Music Genome Project
  • What's that word? The one that means adorably precocious? Oh, yes.

    MIA!

    You go, girl.

    Hayden Tompkinss last blog post..How to Not Abuse Your Children
  • "Pianoforte"--wow. That's amazing.

    This morning my husband was listening to his tunes on the Roku and wondering why he couldn't hear the cowbell in Sweet Emotion. It's on his "More Cowbell" playlist. He said, "Either my ears are going or these speakers aren't good enough." Later I was paging through his playlists, which have names like "Mysterious Songs" and "Unusual Time Signatures." I have a feeling you two would get along (he's the guy who has the whisper room).
  • Mia sounds very intelligent, congratulations as that most likely means you have done a good job raising her, your wife too.

    ~ Jim
  • Sal
    @Rita: I'm not the one you have to worry about, Steph is gaining quickly, you unplug her computer and I will pull her chair out from under her...deal?

    @WD: I just remembered something. Ok, this may seem like a long shot, but I promise I will tie it all in eventually. The other day all of us were in the car, we didn't have the radio on because we were talking about something, when out of the back seat comes Bella, bursting into song and a little jig (well, I think it was a jig, it was all she could do while sitting in her car seat, more of a wiggle and shake, come to think of it, it might have been a seen from river dance, who knows). Anyway, she starts singing as loud as she could, for a total of three songs that we have never heard her sing before, much less aware that she even knew. Talk about a sponge. She finished it off by singing "Ohioans and Pfiffers and Nares - Oh My" from Veggie Tales, then shouted at the top of her lungs...TADAAAAA! It was the most precious moment ever, then Jess and I burst into laughter...guess you had to be there. :(

    Sals last blog post..A Man's Gotta Do...Part III
  • I think it's adorable that you brag about your daughter. She'll love you for that someday. Maybe not when she's a teenager, but someday. ;)

    Jamie Simmermans last blog post..We Donate with Squidoo, Do You?
  • Sal
    @WD: Very respectfully request permission to start a full fledged duel with one of your "more popular" (AHEM) commenters. I promise I won't increase my chances for winning by asking questions or creating comments off topic of the post.

    Oh wait, I just did...GOSH DARN!

    BTW - loved your post (see how I resolved that little dilema?)

    Sals last blog post..A Man's Gotta Do...Part III
  • Sean,
    So sorry - one more question - it IS OK if I call you Sean, right?
    Rita

    (Sal, my kids are grown, I can sit here ALL weekend and leave loving comments to my buddy SEAN. WANNA DUKE IT OUT? :-) )

    Ritas last blog post..The TERRIBLE PARENTING Song We Love to Hear
  • Sean,

    Sorry - I forgot to ask...do you think that I should visit Sal's blog? I'll trust your opinion on that.
    Rita

    Ritas last blog post..The TERRIBLE PARENTING Song We Love to Hear
  • Sean,
    As you know, I never tal about my older daughter. So I will break with tradition once: at 6, every piano teacher in town had dropped her. By middle and high school, no teacher would assign her an instrument - she was the "fill-in." Give her ANY instrument and 10 minutes, and she can play it. She has perfect pitch. One time, I yelled at her sister - and I was told all of the notes I used in my yelling.

    I can't carry a tune. After 23 years, I have NEVER heard my husband sing - not even "Happy Birthday."

    You have a gift to nurture your child's gift. Whether Nirvana or Beethoven, music is music. Don't let her gift die!

    Rita
  • Sean,
    Impressive parents making for impressive kids? In your case, DEFINITLY! Pianoforte :-)

    My older daughter ( you notice I NEVER talk about her - EVER) is a one-woman band. She was born with perfect pitch, and by the age of 6, was dropped by every piano teacher in the area. Hand her an instrument, give her 10 minutes, then any song - and she can play it.

    Her high school band teacher would not give her an instrument to play. She was the "fill-in." She would be assigned any instrument of a student who was absent - for class and concerts.

    I can't carry a note. I've NEVER heard my husband even sing. EVER.

    Work with Mia, she has a gift - and somebody talented and committed enough to nurture it!

    Rita
  • Hmm, there are at least three blogs I regularly read who have children named Mia, funny. Each sound adorable in their own way, and their parents obviously take great delight in them. Your Mia sounds astoundingly perceptive.

    My sons could give a rip about music which will probably change once they hit the teenage years. Conversely, my stepdaughters are always singing, and when they ride with me, it's like the all-hits request hotline. Over time, I've realized it's become a means of connecting with them. I just have to keep them away from away from their aunt who's all into gangsta rap. It's a little weird hearing a 5 & 6 year old singing about "ballers in the club."

    Enjoy the weekend ya'll

    CK Lunchboxs last blog post..CLARK KENT'S INBOX October 3rd
  • Well, it's my fault my kids know all the lyrics to 60's and 70's rock, because we would play "Stump the Mother" and they'd have to name the artist and trak. I always beat them, too. Still. Muahahahaha.

    You'd better get Peter Pan into your house. Stat. I've enjoyed this week with your posts immensely.

    Betsy Wuebkers last blog post..WHY MAKE IT ROUGH?
  • Writer Dad
    Bamboo: You're totally right, but for now, I enjoy not knowing what people look like. It doesn't matter a bit, and it gives their words more unbiased strength.

    Robin: True, that. They can be our teachers if we only let them.

    Matthew: Eminem's verbiage is thick. I can't wait to break it down with the little ones, when they're not so little, in another ten years.

    Blogger Dad: My pleasure, Dave.

    Scott: She's been playing violin for three years. She takes lessons once a week. I do not believe you're ever too young for music. We've given her some kind of music instruction since she was born, even if it was just playing music and talking about the instruments. At three, she was big enough to hold the smallest violin, so we started her on lessons. Believe they can, and they will.

    J.D.: That's funny, J.D.

    Tara: Is your daughter really named Mia? Mine isn't. It's her pseudonym. It actually comes from a nickname that came from nowhere, "Bubalamia." It is an amazing amount of fun to bop with them to music. They are so undaunted.

    Lance: They're sponges. They absorb everything. And you're right, because everything is fresh, they hear without being jaded or bored.

    Kool Aid: Mia and I couldn't be tighter. The same could be said about any combination of the four of us. My pleasure for the list. Your comments were wonderful, and you carried conversation further.

    Sal: I've cracked glass. Well, not really, but it's only because I can't find the right pitch. I'm sure the sound is retched enough.
  • Sal
    *EYES ROLL* - See, you couldn't quite get away from it! My daughter hasn't started picking out sounds, but she, like her mommy, loves to sing. When we are in the car together, she will tell me to roll up the windows, turn the music up and will sing at the top of her lungs. For a 2-1/2 year old she sounds a lot better than I do.

    I am with you on the love sick moose part. My son even tops my talent with his grunts, screams and giggles and he isn't even one yet. Let's just say that I am amazed that the bathroom mirror or window hasn't cracked yet.

    Sals last blog post..A Man's Gotta Do...Part III
  • My eyes aren't rolling, promise. I love hearing about Dads and Daughters and the unique relationship they have. It sounds like you and Mia have and nurture that connection. I think it's great.

    Thanks for making a list and including me on it! I'm flattered and I've now found other blogs to read, too.

    Kool Aids last blog post..Super Savings, pt 2
  • Great dialogue with Mia! It's surprising what children will pick up on sometimes. I wonder if it's that they listen and look with child-like ears and eyes. That everything is "new" to them - and they experience it in a different light than us who have heard or seen it many times.

    Lances last blog post..A Helping Hand
  • My little girl (also called Mia funnily enough) loves Red Hot Chilli Peppers and demands it on our car journey to nursery in the morning.
    She's says "it's a great toon" and rocks her little head along to the beat, and I just thank goodness that she can't make out the words!
    I love it when they discover music. My son loves Take That, Stevie Wonder and in the morning I catch him singing Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah to himself!

    Taras last blog post..Books
  • @Blogger Dad: You just can't help yourself, can you?

    Matthew Drydens last blog post..I Make A Difference, Now What About You?
  • Now I want my next project proposal to show some pianoforte.

    J.D. Meiers last blog post..Strengths and Weaknesses vs. Personality Profiles
  • Scott McIntyre
    Mia seems to be a treasure trove of musical knowledge already, Writer Dad.

    I wonder if you are encouraging her to play any instruments- or is she, perhaps, too young just now?

    You certainly do have a great community here... very 'interactive' :-)

    I hope you and Daisy have a relaxing time together this weekend.
  • Matthew - Thanks for that mental image. Now, I'll NEVER fall asleep.

    Blogger Dads last blog post..Is excess killing you?
  • Another great post. Mia sounds like an amazing child. That was a very sweet moment between you. Thank you for sharing and letting us into your car - and your lives.

    Blogger Dads last blog post..Is excess killing you?
  • Now I've got a new post, I can comment freely again with out people wondering about my masturbation habits.

    *ahem*

    I am waiting until the right moment to introduce my son to the music I truly love and enjoy. For now, I let him dance and go crazy to the current hip hop/dance hits.

    Funny you should say you listen to Eminem. I've been listening to his records for the past couple of weeks. It's a great look at human nature, especially someone who grew up in today's society. If you dig deep enough into his records, it starts to make all sense.

    (God, I've been waiting weeks to say that.)

    Matthew Drydens last blog post..I Make A Difference, Now What About You?
  • Hi WD - kids can know so much!

    Robins last blog post..Ice And Global Warming
  • "but a certain joy embedded in my blog is that I’ll not see your eyes roll as I pride in my progeny."

    One day soon, there will be cams so that you can see your readership and they can see you. A glorious day in the blogosphere, that will be.

    Bamboo Forests last blog post..7 Things That Happen in Movies - But Probably Not to You
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