Online Friendships Can hold the Keys to Success

August 20, 2009

istock_000006573008xsmall-copyOne year ago today I got a ping in my inbox from a total stranger. Over the last twelve months, that stranger has become one of the best friends I’ve ever had and an invaluable member of my family.

One year ago I would never have believed it possible that meeting a stranger online could effect my life so dramatically and with so much immediacy.

But I was wrong.

Thank you Dave for helping me find a future without ceiling and for being a tireless ear for all my dreams and random ramblings.

It was one year back, and yeah those months had been crazy -
I’m not like a dude who lives a life to be lazy,
but the ceiling right above us wore a weight that was CRUSHING.
And this part of the parable will prompt me to blushing,
’cause we were conjuring loco, me and my spouse,
’bout hanging a GONE FISHING sign up on the side of our house.
The preschool that we had, it was a beautiful blast,
but something we were ready to release to our past.
Our children were growing like it was two days for one;
evolutionizing all our definitions for fun.
Cashing out our chips and playing our hand,
yeah, but meeting my match, you see that part wasn’t planned.
I met my online brother on the 20th of Aug,
but did not yet know it’d be like a wheel to a cog.
Elegant machinery has moved since that day,
altering my life in a significant way.
Working with a partner’s like drawing 3 out of 2,
with someone always pulling all the best out of you.
Working with a friend is even better than that,
’cause you develop your own rhythm in a rat-a-tat-tat.
With Dave it’s been a bit of both, like berries and cream
a confident, creative and collaborative dream.
Oh yeah, I’m a dude. I guess I’ll manly it up now
Spit tobacco, hitch my belt, and furrow my brow.
Hammers, machine guns, vikings and lions.
Boxing, steak, Rambo, and half naked Hawaiians.
Thank you buddy for a year that has been filled with art.
A little bit of humor and a lot of your heart.
It’s cool beans but cooler; it’s Sam Jackson in snow.
It’s been a helluva year and I just thought you should know.
I appreciate your talent, your ethics and praise;
your kindness and your candor; all your creative ways
of saying and sketching and drawing it out -
ensuring our ideas don’t dry up to a draught.
Our first year was awesome,
this next is all IMAX in 3-D.
Let’s blow the baby up to be the best it can be.

To celebrate our first successful year, Dave and I have rebooted both our office and workshop. Check out the new digs at both Ghostwriter Dad and the Collective Inkwell today.

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  • It was great for you to have found a TRUE ONLINE FRIEND. As for me, I had a bad experience about that (not in blogging anyway).
  • This is a cool poem! Online friendships are indeed gems to be treasured. I'm lucky I've met wonderful friends online.

    The poem exudes the meaning of true online friendships. Way to go!
  • My pleasure Patricia! Thank YOU for your constant kind words and support. Year 2 is gonna rock!
  • I think a partner in the blog world is vital - you and Dave are a great team and
    now partner/partnering with your wife on the web too - no one can stand in your way for year 2 + (47)
    Thank you for your good efforts and words
  • John: What a nice thing to say, John. Thanks!

    Trina: I almost didn't post this one. I sent it to Dave a couple of weeks ago for his birthday, but I thought it was appropriate and entertaining as well. Thanks for the validation! : > )

    Cindy: Yes, baby. They really do.

    Randi: I gotcha Randi (wink), and yeah, that rhyme took all of two seconds. I don't even have a second choice. : > )
  • I meant save it as a name of a future website.
  • Only a man, when pressed to find something to rhyme with "lions" would come up with "half naked Hawaiians." You're more Eminem than you will ever know. :)

    Joking aside, this was an awesome tribute to friendship. You never fail to deliver, Sean. Like Lori, I loved the "conjuring loco" phrase. I think you need to save it for a future website.
  • The key to a dream is the right partner. Thank goodness dreams really come true.
  • Trina
    I'm always moved by your poetic offerings Sean. It is clear when your love pours forth. In this case your acknowledgement of the gift of friendship and collaboration is abundantly clear, though entertaining too. Congrats on being open to the connection.
  • Ah friendship. It brings out the best in everyone. Kudos to you and Dave for finding each other and becoming best friends. It's something hard to do in a society so fast-faced, but, as expected, you defied the odds.

    Congrats, Sean :)
  • PJ: Thanks, PJ. That's wonderful to hear and I appreciate it muchly.

    Laurie: Thanks Laurie! Dave gets all the credit for the awesome looks. I mostly just nod and say thank you. : > )

    Dave: I'm way ahead of you. Writer Dad is registered for the next 47 years. Year two will be awesome and eleven!

    Lori: Well, you know. I am a dude so I have to make sure everyone knows I have like hair on my chest and stuff. Thanks, Lori. : > )
  • Hey Sean,
    Congratulations on your one year crossing with Serendipity and Dave! What team!
  • "we were conjuring loco" -- I think I know that place!

    I laughed at the inclusion of machismo to keep from going all flowery or mushy -- too funny! You are the dynamic duo we all love watching. Great things to come, for sure.
  • Thank you for the kind words, brotha. I was afraid of flowery, bromantic text, but you made it all cool and stuff. I look forward to Year Two!

    P.S. If you ever forget to re-register WriterDad, I'm stealing it back!
  • Laurie
    I have met some incredible people on line as well. You are one of the Sean! I like the new look of the blogs. I wish you more success than you can imagine! God Bless!
  • That's great, and congratulations. I love reading both yours and David's blog. All the best for continued success.
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