The End of the Rainbow

“Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue, and the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true”

~ Lyman Frank Baum quotes

3355651724_d51db41867When my parents first decided on the name Rainbows for their one of a kind boutique flower shop, one year shy of three decades back, they couldn’t have had any idea how fitting that moniker would turn out to be. The extraordinary business they built from nothing has lived through the arc of a rainbow; climbing toward the sky before descending to the other side of the horizon and disappearing into the mystery of tomorrow.

They created a market where one didn’t exist before, bringing a European bucket shop into the city. Rainbows carried the high end flowers found in the chic shops of Santa Monica, Pasadena, and West Hollywood and sold them for next to nothing in Long Beach. Their business model was based on volume and it worked well for a wide width of time.

After three amazing decades, the brick and mortar mercantile has fallen subject to the iron law of diminishing returns. That picture you see was shot by my sister. It shows the final shrunken display that will ever sit beneath that particular rainbow. Trends have shifted and the business of buying budget bundles of flowers has drifted to the wider aisles of the local grocer. The particular cocktail of tapered margins and reduced foot traffic has left it imprudent to fritter long days idle inside the store, awaiting the echo of footsteps while a multiplicity of eager commerce is lingering online.

The store is now closed, its final satisfied customer leaving with a smile just two weeks ago. The store has been run by my father for the last fifteen years, my sister and I standing by his side during the majority of that time. He is now moving the business to a studio space that will be closed to foot traffic, but still open to online and telephone orders. My father is now thirty years older than he was on that sunny September day when my parents first threw open their doors and crossed their fingers.

There is no sadness beget by the closing of Rainbows’ doors. The business of running a flower shop is exhausting and the overhead extortionate. By removing a single avenue, my pop will effectively, and exponentially, widen his potential. Our family is proud of the store’s storied history and the legacy it leaves behind. Our only sadness comes from the countless faces who have crossed the threshold to order flowers for family gatherings, weddings, and parties, or simply because there are fewer ways to more precisely say, “I Love You.”

The store must close its physical doors because it is an appropriate time to do so, but the memories shall swirl inside our minds forever. The end of this arc has led to a new sunset, every sunset precedes a new tomorrow.

Writer Dad

Sean Platt is a ghostwriter, creative blogger, and occasional potty training expert.

Dad… dad… DAD!!!

“Any man can be a father.  It takes someone special to be a dad.”

~ Author Unknown

DAD

3106591701_718b60da9dDad is undoubtedly one of my favorite words in the world.  The simple sound can make me feel like a superhero on the best of days, and is a balm to the wounds of my worst.

Three letters and only two unique, D-A-D, yet could I ever tire of their palindromic sound?

Dad…

I remember the second I felt that first spark of being a dad.  It started in the tip of my finger before rolling up and around my shoulders, then in a straight slide down the back of my spine.  Mia was barely two minutes born, still screaming from the bright light of her brand new universe.

Dad…

Of course she couldn’t cry dad, but she may as well have.  Mia ceased her weeping the instant all five of the tiny digits of her left hand curled around my pointer and I wiggled my hand back and forth in perfect time to her calming breath.

I knew I was a dad from the moment Daisy and I saw that little pink line divide the white window, but I felt like a dad the second my flesh connected with a brand new Mia.

Dad…

I adjusted to my title quickly, even used it myself many times throughout each day.  I had never referred to myself in third person before I was a dad, but every day after, I stared into my daughter’s eyes long enough to tell her, “Daddy Loves you.”

For the next year, Sean was an endangered syllable I heard only outside the house, and even then it sounded somewhat foreign.

DAD…

Six months into my life as a father, I started to hear the sound in song.  Dad, Dad-dad-da-D dad, dada, Dad.  Each Dad rang through my ears and thickened the deep pride I already felt.

Mia was nearing two when we discovered my role as a new daddy was about to double.

Max was on his way.

DAD!

I adored being a dad and was eager enough to add another.  Though my minutes alone were increasingly scarce and Mia was at the age where the word Dad was regularly rat-a-tat-tatted around like shells from an Uzi, I was in love with (nearly) every second.

DAD!

Max was born on Father’s Day, Daisy that year giving me a gift she has yet to equal.  Max seemed to say “Dad” just days after his delivery, and by our first Christmas as a foursome, the word dad was bouncing from the walls like echos at the bottom of an empty canyon.

Still I did not mind.

DAD!!!

By the time Max was ambling around the house in a half waddle – half walk, he was trumpeting the word DAD as though the most important sound in the entire world.  ”dad-deeeee, DaD- Deeeee, DAD-DEEEEE.”  It was certainly loud, and perhaps a bit annoying, but I found it near impossible to bury a smile.

We opened our preschool and had to immediately fend off possessive affection from the other tiny toddlers intent on calling me dad.

DAD!!!!!!

“He’s MY DAD!” Max would declare, willing to share his father, so long as he alone could lay claim to the title.  Our wee students would leave and the short hours spent after five o’clock were dedicated to my own two reclaiming their Dad-Dee.

They would chant the word over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.

Still I did not mind.

DAD!!!!!!!!!

Now, as I try to canvas the white page with the black of my keystrokes I can hear the metronomic chorus carried through the house, each pulse deepening the deafening beat of my never ending daddy duties.

Tasks that should take ten minutes now take twenty.

To do’s that should have neat black lines severing their middle now mock me with incompletion.

I would love to say each day is still a treasure, and that the power of the word DAD could never dim, but if I said that today I would be lying.  Today was one of those days frosted with an incessant need for my undying attention.

Today was filled with, “DAD, Max is using potty talk,” “DAD, Mia’s playing with my garbage truck,” “DAD, Max is antagonizing me,” and, “DAD, Mia has too many hands on me.

One day, I am quite sure I’ll…

DAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sigh.  I’ve gotta go.  I’m being paged.

Writer Dad

Sean Platt is always a dad, but he also ghostwrites and is an occasional potty training expert.

A More Spontaneous Holiday

“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.”

~Hans Hofmann

Happy Holidays everyone.  Vacation has started.  I will be online sporadically for the rest of the year as I tidy up this one and prepare for the next.  I will drop in with a couple of important messages, and the pages will be kept fresh by friends of Writer dad.  Please enjoy the first in a series of guest posts, as Dave Fowler tells us what the holidays this year mean to him.

2104624897_6758fbf5b8This is my first Christmas as a stay at home dad, so it’s going to be different.  This year is going to be better than any Christmas before.  It will be more joyous and there will be more merriment.

Not because I have some meticulous plan set in place to execute with military like precision – but because I don’t.

I have no plan, other than to go with the flow.

Except for the purchase of a few gifts and a major round of early grocery shopping, I’ve done nothing else to prepare.

It feels brilliant and liberating.  “So what,” shall be my motto.

There is not much that can’t be fixed by the careful application of personal attention, and who better to give it than someone not tied to a rigid agenda and steeped in the ludicrous expectations of a perfect Christmas Holiday?

I have fallen foul of this too many times before.

Whenever I’ve planned to design an event to perfection, it always misses the mark and finds its bulls-eye in disappointment instead.

Always aspiring to something greater, I find  my mind is often elsewhere, thinking of something that has already happened or is yet too, but I am usually missing out on what’s transpiring right before my very eyes.

Not this year.

This year I’m going to be in the moment as much as I possibly can.  Aside from the obligations I’ve made to getting fit, I have set no rules for myself.

The countless conventions normally set in place have been sidelined in favour of spontaneous fun and frequent dashes of hilarity.  All my children have reached an age where they can fully experience the delight of the holidays, and I want to be present for them.

We are financially challenged this year, owing to the loss of my earning, but I can still give my young family the most wonderful gift I have.

The gift of a father’s time.

Being with them, playing with them, talking to them, and loving them, will make this a Christmas I will never forget.

Merry Christmas,

Dave Fowler

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