Write on Mia!

Note: This is another one of those posts where I unabashedly fawn over my daughter. I’ll try not to be too sloppy.

“To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once in a while.”

~Josh Billings

Last week was our parent-teacher conference for Mia.  As some of you know, Daisy and I send our daughter to a dual immersion program where eighty percent of her day is in Spanish.  She’s in first grade now.  Last year, that number was ninety.

Daisy and I were keen to hear what her teacher had to say.  We felt we had a clear idea, for better or worse, but were looking forward to a dot at the end of our sentence.

Our daughter, it turns out, is quite the the little wordsmith.  Her magnificent maestra is pleased when students can line up three well articulated sentences.  Mia is penning five paragraph papers… in a second tongue.  She has a mature grasp of punctuation, and an apparent fondness for the quotation mark.

Mia isn’t a genius, but she is willing to work hard, and push through most any barrier impeding her comprehension.  She’s been drawing, or writing since she could hold a pencil. She is rarely afraid to try, and therefore most often succeeds.  For Daisy and I, this is a calliope of validating inspiration.

We’ve known Mia for seven and a half years, if we travel back to when she was no larger than a grain of rice, which I think is perfectly fair.  Even then, she was dangling the strings and making us dance.

We were thrilled to have a discussion with an outstanding practitioner who spends the better part of seven hours with our daughter, each and every weekday.  At school, Mia is undaunted.   She’s fearless, and flies without worry, unafraid to fail, but anxious to produce.

At home, Mia sometimes moves with the mayhem of a tornado, juggling several ventures at once.  She twirls from table to table, coloring Christmas ornaments, writing a letter to Santa, all while playing the architect to one of her famous “contraptions.”

It is easy to picture her in the classroom, and we acknowledge our fortune that Mia has a teacher who understands her student and wishes to articulate her productive, capable mind, yet also knows that her enthusiasm must be channeled.  Our maestra will help teach Mia to be organized without squelching her spirit.

Mia’s a wonderful writer because she has an example to follow, and for this I am certainly proud, but there is a caveat.

I sometimes juggle topics like a sideshow attraction, and Mia’s a good enough listener to know that I frequently work on many different things at once.  I must not only crow about the kudos, I must also look upon the side of the coin that is kissing the ground.

Our children are reflections in a puddle; rippling with an image not quite ours, but no doubt our distant double.  To truly know who they are, we must have a clear understanding of who we are.  Only then can we walk them toward their best.

Writer Dad

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Lucas With the Lid Off

“If NONE of us are stronger, then how can we give assistance, to those of us who life’s seen fit to offer some resistance.”

~ Lucas Bright

Last Friday I scattered a whole lotta rhyme, that was penned out, then pinned up and penned for a time.

I suppose I was seeking a suitable stage, before I let little Lucas leap out from his cage.

True, I was hoping he’d make it to print; my words plus some pictures, both making a mint.

But really, that’s silly.  I don’t have to sell, every idea I draw from the well.

Lucas is limber with language he’s learned.  Spitting specifics with syllables burned.

Though he will not be dropping down words every day, I’ve invited Lucas to come out and play.

I’ve offered a spot as occasional host.  He said he’d love to produce a periodic post.

So we shook hands in my mind, then he disappeared.  Now here is some air, that I’d like to have cleared.

When I rose last Friday, my inbox was FAT with I do not believe that a child wrote that!”

I never intended for people to think that Lucas existed outside of a wink.

When fans aren’t familiar with your form of fiction, it’s difficult to diddle around with your diction.

But writers should seek to revamp their voices, to amplify, mushroom and multiply choices.

I can do that when scribing a page in my book, but this blog, well it’s holding a whole different hook.

So I’ll say it again, little Lucas is fake, but he gives me a different perspective to take.

He can be loud, and a bit unafraid.  He hasn’t yet made the decisions I’ve made.

He can ask questions that I never would, because he is standing where I’ve never stood.

He makes me think, though I thought of him first.  I give him breath, but I’m well reimbursed.

Let’s imagine that Lucas is sitting in class, scribbling a note he’s now ready to pass.

“Don’t look now,” it says, “but my teacher’s real mad.  She knows I’m busting rhymes while I’m with Writer Dad.

Writer Dad

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Gracias, Señora

 

Two years ago, when Daisy and I were first looking for a school for Mia, our main criteria was finding an environment where she wouldn’t be bored.  Fortunately, we found a fantastic public school in our city that had a Dual Immersion program where ninety percent of a Kindergartner’s day is taught in Spanish. 

Surely, that would keep her eyes open.

There aren’t a lot of schools like this, at least in our district.  There was quite the waiting list, and though we collectively wore the armor of optimism, Daisy and I were silently worried that our alternative education wasn’t going to happen.  

Fortune prevailed and Mia was accepted.  Her school year is over, and now we can reflect.  

The school year was so much more than we ever imagined.  Mia grew beyond our expectations, and learned a mass of lessons that we could not have taught her.  

Daisy and I each wrote letters to Mia’s primary teacher, as well as her principal.  In addition, I wrote this little verse for the two of them.  I thought I’d share.

Names have been changed to protect the innocent:

Dear Maestras,

I knew we were lucky, though I had no idea, what a year would be like with Señora Mochila.  As the curtains draw closed on my first year as a dad, with a child at Lincoln, I’m a little bit sad. My children grow older (it seems faster than me) and one day their changes will get harder to see, but the changes this year I can not even count, because they arrived every day in a countless amount.

We’ve watched our girl grow from inquisitive and ready, to just over six, now skillful and steady.  Before, she could not roll the “R” in burrito.  Now she orders in Spanish when we’re at El Torito.  We’ve lost nine pages from the calendar since her first day in dress.  May I have a moment Maestras, so that I may confess?

Daisy and I harbored no second choice.  It was Lincoln we desired to give our girl voice.  We waited and lingered with anticipation for a letter of acceptance to provide us elation.  We received our letter in the post, but the program was filled and a small part of my spirit was a little bit killed.  But it doesn’t come close to stinging my pride to tell you straight up, I actually cried.  

I called on the phone and asked, “What can I do?”  Sra. Reina said, “Be patient Señor; just see it through.”  So I listened to her, swallowed my tears, and allowed encouraging words to flood through my ears. 

Two weeks passed, then on Good Friday it was, we unfolded another letter and read with a buzz.

We stayed unerring, sound in our choice, and now we could finally begin to rejoice.  Not only for Mia, but for our Maxwell as well.  We were so happy, we started to yell.  A wonderful institution had become in our reach where our children would learn things that we could not teach.

The next four months fell like leaves in the Fall, taking Mia that first day we’ll always recall.  Señora was perfect.  She had command of the room, like a pregnant mamí has command of her womb.  We knew without doubt, as we knit hands with our boy, that our next nine months would be brimming with joy.

And they were, mis maestras, es todo verdad.  Nunca en su escuela es una facade.  Mia’s learned how to read and then how to write in a new tongue by doing assignments each night.  She’s learned how to sing with such beautiful grace, I can easily picture my gone grandmother’s face.  She knew how to learn, but now she digests, and she does it all with such flawless finesse.

Lincoln’s a school that’s surpassed expectation by providing a solid, substantial foundation, and that is the bedrock of great education – a group of teachers who offer such deep dedication.  Please believe me when I say: this is no aberration.  You have earned our family’s sincere admiration.  It would be a benefit to the whole of our nation, if such practice were applied to the next generation.

We wanted for our child to be challenged, not bored; a wish which was granted, instead of ignored.  Thank you kindly for all that you do.  Daisy and I are so grateful for you.  From nuestras corazones, quiseramos to say.  Gracias por todo hacen every day.

Writer Dad

Her Face at Odds

In six and a half years, I don’t think our Mia’s ever lived through a week with such an obvious paradox etched across her face.  Those last few days of school were hard on her. 

And the two sides of her heart were having quite the skirmish.  

With the end of the school year just a few hot lunches away, Mia didn’t know whether she should be feeling sad, happy, or a healthy percentage of each. 

The resulting confusion bled across her face like one of her watercolors left too long on the porch.

Haven’t we all been there before; probably more times than we care to count (or admit)?

Mia’s excited about spending Summer at home (no schlepping in the car and racing across town before her breakfast is even digested), and she’s looking forward to a quality of downtime that she hasn’t really had in any significant measure for the past nine months, but Mia also knows that it’s going to be ten weeks before she sees any of her friends again, and that next September, when we pull up to the school with a fresh backpack and fresh expectations, her Señora will be Maestra to another class.

Mia’s first teacher was tremendous; everything Daisy and I had hoped for.  She loved our daughter, and, even better, she checked her in all the ways that our little girl needs to be checked.  Like any great mother, Señora gave Mia a generous amount of rope, but also knew when it was time to pull it tight.  

She encouraged Mia’s assets, discouraged her deficiencies, and stretched her mental rubber band (sometimes to the snapping point).  She spoke to her with a strong voice and direct language, inspiring her to try countless new things and admirably succeed at many of them.  

Mia will miss her terribly, and so will we.  

But it was good to see her work through such conflicting emotions and arrive on solid ground.  The summer’s going swimmingly so far.  She misses her teacher, but she’s using her feelings to make herself a better writer.  

What more could a writer dad, or a writer mom for that matter, ever ask?

Writer Dad